Boundaries/safety:

I want people to feel safe to share as much as they want with me about themselves or whatever situations they’re seeking guidance on, and not feel pressure to disclose anything but also to be aware that I’m pretty comfortable discussing the dark and traumatic if they feel like it’s relevant and are ready to share such things with me. I believe it’s important to check in throughout the reading to see how we are both feeling, especially in these instances. I welcome feedback, questions, confirmations, etc., and I want you to be so so comfortable to speak up if you want to change subjects, directions, decks, etc.

LGBTQ+ people, BIPOC, disabled people, neurodivergent people are welcomed and cherished. No identity disclosure required of course, but feel free to share with me about that especially if it relates to anything you do or do not want out of your experience with me, and I will do my best to honor it.

God, religion, etc.:

For me all forms of divination are ways of connecting and communicating with the “Source” or “God” and I reject the idea that they are evil or low vibrational not just on principle but based on experience. I also think in any form of spirit work, vocally and explicitly setting one’s intention toward “the light” is important and is something I always do before engaging in any spiritual work, and I aim to only connect with benevolent, protective, and helpful energies when I am doing a reading for myself and anyone else. That being said, I don’t think you need to be spiritual already to benefit from a reading, and I’ll do my best to ground the guidance that comes through in a more pragmatic way if that’s what you’re looking for. I always try to do that, I suppose, but in this case I mean leaving the woo-woo out if you’re not trying to hear all that.

Predicting the future:

I don’t recommend using divination this way, and I find that the cards and/or our guides/angels/spirits (whatever you want to call them) will generally avoid giving the black or white answer we’re looking for when we come to them with a question like “Is X gonna happen?” You’re much more likely to get an overview of potential outcomes and advice about what you may be able do to affect the outcome, or to prepare for the various possibilities. Sometimes it’s because the answer is not yet set in stone, and sometimes it’s because they can’t be giving you spoilers or it will ruin the plot.